Set ups are on the increase even more so as the Xmas season approaches. Most of you keep demanding for pictures before chatting with anyone,wrong move,all set ups send you pictures of cute sexy guys and some with six packs,they know what entices you guys,someone even told me the set up guy even sent him recharge card before they met,there is no way to verify if the pictures are genuine until its too late,these days its getting deadly,people getting drugged,beat up and even kidnapped for ransom,they empty your bank account and still call your people to pay ransom.
We can't help but meet people and make new friends,but cut down on your lust for six packs and hot guys and first chat with this person to get an insight into who he is,ask for his Facebook page,the beauty of Facebook is that we have our community here,you meet someone on badoo,grindr or manjam,demand for their Facebook ID,check for mutual friends,ask members of our community if they know him,especially mutual friends,check his updates, you will get clues as to whom you going to meet,more importantly never go to meet the person except in neutral reputable eatery or shopping mall,you have any doubts please excuse yourself subtly and run for your life! If no member of this community can vouch for him here on Facebook,please don't go on that date. Delta state and Edo state are notorious for these incidents, this is not to say all other states are safe,because these people spread their operations across. In lagos,Festac,Mile 2,Satellite, Ojo, Mushin, Surulere, Ipaja, Apapa, Oshodi are flash points for set ups,this is not to say all other areas are safe,be security conscious. Remember pictures assures you of nothing other than to tickle your lust. Please share experiences so that others can learn, you might be saving a life,we must watch out for each other,these country cannot protect LGBT people, so let be each other's keeper!