It sounds funny but for real it ain't. Some gay men consider it a fetish... But it is really a terrible thing if it happens in a situation where the victim has little or no options. There are many reasons why a man would want to rape another man, but that is so vast we can't begin to delve into it. Please bear in Mind that when i talk of rape, i am not only refering to penetrative sex, but also to all other forced sexual acts that were not consentual.
To make this post more readable, I am going to relive the horrible experiences of my 2 friends Bruno and Ndukwe (you wish it were their real name...) who were raped in almost similar scenerios but under different conditions. Please join me as i tell their tale wiith a little spice to garnish *Wink*
Bruno had been chatting on "2go" with this handsome bloke in Asaba. This dude was very dark skinned, tall, toned and hairy just the way he liked his men. He was like a cross between Edris Elba and Djimon, not too handsome but masculine. The dude has been asking Bruno to come visit him in Asaba, but to no avail. Distance was barrier, because while Bruno was in Akure doing his mandatory National Youth Service in Akure, Chuka was at Asaba working. He had even promised to pay Bruno's "T-fare" and cater to him during his stay, to which Bruno decided to seek the advice of his friend Tayo, who encouraged him to go, "after all Chuka was a harmless working class guy with a good government job in Asaba, and he would definitely pay Bruno good money for selling market..." Despite the encouragemment, Bruno's intuition wasn't in agreement with the visit, but he eventualy decided to go. Chuka was elated, when he broke the news to him over whatsapp and promised to refund the transport fare, with which Bruno used in coming to Asaba as soon as they met.
It was normally a 4 hour journey, but the rain and bad roads took their toll... so by 2 pm he was at the motor park near Okpanam road in Asaba waiting for his "boo" to come pick him... but Chuka never came. He sent Bruno a message for him to hang around that he was at work and had his hands full, but will definitely close by 4pm... Young but street wise Bruno, went to a "bukka" in the area, ordered jollof rice with kpomo and a bottle of coke whilst going through his whatsapp messages chatting with friends, before scouting Grindr to find fresh meat in the city... 4:18 came and still no show... He was a little worried, because not only was Chuka reading but not replying to his whatsapp messages, he was also not picking his calls. Then right about when it was almost a quater to five something happened!
[To Be Continued...