He's Straight & Has a Girlfriend....

It was a warm mid semester afternoon, I had just finished a quiz on superconductivity and had no more lectures that day. I was rushing back to my room to listen to the BBC rendition of King Richard 3's play on radio,I found the Nigerian radio and media generally boring and their putrefying homophobia was a turn off completely.

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Can a Gay Man Also be a Committed Christian? #FRANKTALK

Okay, come in here brother, take a seat lets talk. Is there any such thing like a gay Christian? It is not rocket science that our men of God speak against and are sometimes aggressive in all things homosexual. However, the same homosexual people "sashey" in our choir rows, mount alters to speak and even sometimes convulse allegedly under the holy ghost.

 What do you think? Can a person be gay and at the same time a committed Christian?

 I hope you like the new blog comment system I installed today. PLEASE DO SAY SOMETHING I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS...

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When a Gay Top Plays Bottom #TRUESTORY

       All the years I have known Tunji, the guy has always treated me like a slut, I mean a cheap piece of ass! in a way, I blame myself for it, because I am always racing to his self contained apartment in FESTAC whenever he called me, which was only when he was horny and needed to satisfy his sexual urge.

       We weren't dating, it was even less of a f**kbuddy kind of thing, because he never gave anything after 3 rounds of consuming sex, after which, not even water, a consolation or common transport fare. So last week Tuesday, I got fed up with it and told him that the next time he called me up, since he had nothing to offer aside a "preek" if he ever wanted me again, I would have to top him. He laughed it off, and called it a bluff saying he was a strictly top, and no man's pen will smell his bum.

      On Sunday, he called again, drunk and turnt from a street party a few streets away. He wanted me to come spend he night. At about 10:30pm I was knocking at his burglary proof, with a oacket of condoms in my pocket. He staggered out, stared at me with eyes raped by lust and ushered me into the apartment. Without even allowing me settle into the sofa, he began pulling my clothes, during which I reminded him of our previous agreement, he looked at me through his drunken haze and muttered something about thinking that I was joking. At this juncture, I made to leave, feigning annoyance. He held me back and tried all he could to pin me down to have gis way, but that wasn't happening this time, for I didn't let him. We were both awake till 1:30am, before he finally gave in to me toping him, although he made me promise not to tell anyone about the escapade and winced in pain everytime my pestle pounded his mortar. It appeared to be a bitter sweet experience for him, but deep down I sensed he had done it before.We both fell asleep soon after out if exhaustion, but as we both wome up to our cuddled buddies around 6am, TunjI asked me to do him again, before he went to shower and prepare for work, of course I obliged. This strengthened my belief that there are no STRICT ROLES in the gay community, it's only a mirage.

~Udoka.

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Alleged Nigerian Gay Celeb Called out by Angry Fan on Facebook!

Someone's ox is certainly gored! An angry fan has called out an alleged Nigerian gay celeb in a hot Facebook rant, although not mentioning names, the fan's annoyance is how these celebs parade themselves as straight folks without blemish, but still  dine on guys behind closed doors.... Sounds like a scorned lover tho!

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Homophobic Bigots Gotta See this

#WORD Happy Sunday Lovelies.... 

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Ten Types of Women You Will Likely Meet in Your Lifetime!

Here's an interesting list of 10 types of Women you might come across in your lifetime;

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Chai! Who Did this to Wizkid?

Crazy or sexy? this is part of artwork by Nigerian graphic designer Aaron Items! He made several male Nigerian celebrities into ladies and calls it the Sherikoko series! Queen!

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See What this Child Posted on Facebook!

         Some people are natural whores...lmao. The Nigerian gay space is filled with so much filt and shitty children. Oh YES! I've resumed blogging again!

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I Was Born Gay... Yes I Was!

  

 Happy new month. I'm trying to find out the reason this feelings keep on coming. I do nothing but wonder, the origin of it, i tried finding out if am truly gay born as some gays will say, they were born that way...

      Well i started having this gay feelings at an early age of 9-10. It began with a friend, who was about the same age with me, sometimes when we played and hung out in a secluded places we would eventually begin touching other. No body corrupted me, no uncle fiddled with me...

     We couldn't understand this was homosexuality, neither did we know what was gay then. When my family eventually moved out of that area, i met another guy. In ways i couldn't explain, i noticed w always kept staring at him and having inexplicable likeness for the fellow. I eventually discovered the true definition of homosexuality in my secondary school days. Then the act was committed in secret, with the fear and guilt that it was a sin. Owing to the guilt, i wasn't my self to it even though the feelings were too strong for me. In secondary school i did not do the penetration thingy, but however enjoyed touching or sometimes choking on the "D" of a wiling colleague, all that happened during my secondary school days.

           I took an 2 year break trying to figure out what was wrong with my person. In that period, i met a pastor, told him everything and he prayed for me... i fasted, wept and plead with God to take the feelings away, yes i do believe in God, because i was raised that way, but nothing happened. Mind you, some people assume that because i have not had sexual intercourse with a woman, that if i did the feelings will go. So for a year following the 2 year break, i tried to become a ladies man. I was the toast of women in my department and at home during the holidays, yet i felt zilch satisfaction towards them, but rather a hot longing for boys...

   I have made peace with myself and so far in journey i have made a mental acceptance that i was born a homosexual... I will be what i was swet out to become, i will achieve and surpass expectations but i will never let stereotypes or my sexuality define me.

 *Deinde

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