The Vatican dismissed a priest from his post in a Holy See office today Saturday Oct. 3rd after he told a newspaper he was gay and urged the Catholic Church to change its stance on homosexuality, Reuters reports.
Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts
Saturday, 3 October 2015
Saturday, 19 September 2015
How I Lost My Virginity
..My name is Nuel, and this is the story about my first real sex. Now just to clear the air, I’ve always known I am gay; never had any life-altering or traumatic experience with an uncle, neighbour or anyone for that matter. I always liked guys and that’s it, yeah I said it. I’m an original, not a tired underlying made by thirsty niggas from the ‘conversionist’ ministries.
Wednesday, 16 September 2015
Can a Gay Man Also be a Committed Christian? #FRANKTALK
Okay, come in here brother, take a seat lets talk. Is there any such thing like a gay Christian? It is not rocket science that our men of God speak against and are sometimes aggressive in all things homosexual. However, the same homosexual people "sashey" in our choir rows, mount alters to speak and even sometimes convulse allegedly under the holy ghost.
What do you think? Can a person be gay and at the same time a committed Christian?
I hope you like the new blog comment system I installed today. PLEASE DO SAY SOMETHING I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS...
Tuesday, 15 September 2015
Wednesday, 9 September 2015
Can a Man be Raped? PART 1...
It sounds funny but for real it ain't. Some gay men consider it a fetish... But it is really a terrible thing if it happens in a situation where the victim has little or no options. There are many reasons why a man would want to rape another man, but that is so vast we can't begin to delve into it. Please bear in Mind that when i talk of rape, i am not only refering to penetrative sex, but also to all other forced sexual acts that were not consentual.
PAMPERS! My Fears as an Inexperienced Gay Man...
When your baby brother was born in the hospital, that place that smelled strangely of liquid soap and disinfectant, your father bought a big pack of pampers for his shit and pee. And whenever he cried, his face scrunched up and legs up in the air, your mother carried him, felt his buttocks and said, “Cheta’s pampers is wet. Give me another one from the bag.”
Do Nigerian Gay Men Rim Their Lovers?
As a Nigerian gay man who's very sexually active, have you ever been rimmed?... As in have your ass ever been eaten in a sexually pleasing way by your lover? Well all the days i spent meeting and hooking up with men way back in Naija, no dude i know liked eating ass. Don't get me wrong, i am a very clean fellow who is quite meticulous and particular about hygiene, so i can confidently say my "boochaha" is clean! I know! I have been told...lolx. But Nigerian gay men in general, or maybe the men i met don't have a liking for eating ass!
On the contrary since moving out of the country schooling in the UK and travelling a whole lot around to different developed nations of the world, when we wanna get down it is normal for dudes to wanna eat me down there, just as it is okay for a blow job. However i decline, owing to the paranoia i have with respect to contracting an STD, although i dont know the possibility of getting such through rimming. A few tops i have asked concerning why they don't eat their lovers ass, claim their patners never asked for it, while most say Ngerian gay men, don't clean their "Boochachas" effectively, or that the ass is just too smelly and "Shitty" to lick up. I was even told that alot of the youngins in the Nigerian gay world, barely shower before they get down, not to mention douching down there... Different strokes for different folks. But i however think sex should be satisying to both parties.
So as a gay Nigerian man. Have you ever been rimmed before???
Tuesday, 8 September 2015
13 Misconceptions About Gay Men!
There are lots of stereotypes about queer people. This post is going to explore some of the stereotypes concerning gay men. Many of the items in the list are not bad things! The issue is when people assume that because you’re a gay man, you’re ____.
Ummmm... See What this Dude wrote on Facebook!
I'm totally with him on this one.... but what's the fun in it if all the sucking is removed from the sexing?
Monday, 7 September 2015
Ummm... Guys is this True?
How true is this claim? I truly believe that being gay ain't a phase.
All Gay Men on Truvada Test Negative Despite Exposure to HIV!
Over 600 people have been found to not have contracted HIV after using PrEP for two and a half years.
Sunday, 6 September 2015
Oh My! See How this Guy Dressed to Please His Boyfriend!
Sexy right? If you've got three words to say to this brother what will that be?
10 Truths Every Gay Man Should Tell Thamselves!
Don't you wish being gay came with an owner's manual sometimes? Wouldn't it make things so much easier if we just had a checklist? In that spirit, I thought I'd share what I consider the top ten things every gay man should know. Feel free to add to the list in the comments.
1). You will never find "the one" by trolling for sex on Manhunt.
2). Just because you're part of a minority group doesn't mean you know how all other minorities feel.
3). Some churches don't think you're sinful and in need of redemption.
4). You don't have to be married to be in a committed relationship.
5). HIV/AIDS isa gay disease. So are cancer, leukemia, bipolar disorder and cerebral palsy.
6). Just because you're "straight-acting" doesn't mean you're better than someone who's not.
7). Dick size doesmatter, but not as much as knowing how to use what you've got.
8). You are not the spokesperson for our cause. Others might have a different experience.
9). Steel Magnoliasis not the best movie ever made. Neither is Brokeback Mountain.
10). Ass-less chaps are notappropriate evening wear for a fancy restaurant.
Saturday, 5 September 2015
A Bottom Gay Man's Palaver...
A bottom gay man decided to get married due to pressure from friends and family, he got married to a gorgeous lady he met the birthday party of his cousin. They loved and respected each other, but surprisingly for 4 months after their wedding after they've been married the man refused to make love to his wife. He always gave one excuse or the other, claiming he was tired, work or wasn't in the mood!
However, the truth was that no matter how she tried he was never aroused, because sexually women didn't turn him on. One Saturday evening, a worried new Mrs who was obviously sex starved decided to go on social media, chat an ex of hers, who she introduced to her husband as a distant relative, but on the side was satisfying her matrimonial drive for sex! The husband eventually found out, but decided to turn a blind eye....
Who is to blame for the woman's extra marital affairs?
Friday, 4 September 2015
Why You Should Never Get Back With Your Ex
Why? You’re supposed to move forward and leave behind a chapter that has been defined as old news. You should never open an old door for something or someone of the past. It’s unhealthy, and it’s keeping you from taking the next step in your life.
Don’t give up on love, but give up on the person who gave you a reason to walk away.
Most likely, you were hurt beyond repair, or maybe, you hurt your ex-significant other. For one reason or another, it needed to end, and it did.
# 1 If It Was Meant To Work, It Would Have.
When something goes wrong, the first piece of advice you hear is, “Everything happens for a reason.” Listen to it. It’s not just a generic saying to help you feel better or something someone says because the person is awful at advice. It’s the cold, hard truth.
If you were supposed to end up with your last boyfriend or girlfriend, you would be with him or her. There wouldn’t be issues big enough to cause the connection between the two of you to break.
#2 You Will Never Find The Right Person If You’re Always Stuck With The Wrong One.
Whatever he or she did to ruin your relationship was clearly something that should not have happened.
Whether your relationship lacked the trust, respect or the dignity it should always hold, someone will always treat you better than the person who broke your heart.
If you continue going back to the person who betrayed you, you’ll miss out when the perfect person does finally comes along. You’ll be too blind to see.
#3 The Person Will Continue To Hurt You.
Of course, the apology will seem so sincere the first time you hear it. But, what about two, three or four apologies? My concept is this: Do something once, and it’s an accident. Do something twice, and it’s on purpose.
If you are constantly hearing an apology for the same thing, it will never end. You will continue being disappointed in the end by believing false promises followed by a series of “apologies.”
#4 The Respect Will Never Be Repaired.
You will never forge the pain. When you think about the love between the two of you, the heartbreak will always be one step ahead of you. When trying to fix things with someone from the past, everything will always seem off.
It’s like you’re taking two steps forward and one step back. You can’t move on without harsh memories bombarding your mind every time you look at this person. It will truly never go away.
#5 It Will Never Be The Same As It Was In The Beginning.
We all long to have the first stages of a relationship back. The honeymoon phase is something of true beauty. You both know each other very well, but not well enough to understand the flaws or scars that are hiding.
Once a relationship ends, there’s no way in hell it will ever find its way back to the honeymoon phase. It’s as impossible as trying to trust someone who has cheated.
#6 There Is Somebody Better For You.
Take a long, hard look at your relationship. Were you happy, or was it convenient? Did you absolutely love this person with all of your heart, or was it someone you liked spending time with on a lonely night?
Did you think about this person during the middle of the day or when your mind was secluded in a dark room at 2 am?
Be true to your feelings and your heart. You will find someone who will respect you, someone who will make you question why you ever wasted your time before him or her. This person will make life seem easier and will bring nothing but pure satisfaction to your life.
Should I Kill this Homophobe?
As a growing gay in a boarding school. I loved having sex with my fellow class mate until on day.. I was set up. .. On November 20th 1998 precisely 11.30pm. I was having a great sex urge that I decided to go and wake up my favorite top friend, he was fucking suddenly he shouted. .. Homo... Homo..Homo.... Homo... Everyone in the hostel woke up.. I was dragged to the hall supervisor to explain my ordeal. I tried to convince them but the top guy said I was touching his penis in the middle of the night... In the morning they took me to the principals office who was a professor in Human psychology... Who got his degree from Havard University. He told me I am not wanted in this kind of environment that I should go and call my parent. Being a student who takes the second or third position in the class they didn't want to loose me. But after much deliberation he expelled me and announced my name in the church. I got home and became a day student. My parent refused to understand me. ..my mum called me abominable but my father always advice me and warn her to stop that but she did not but said I will be killed in this house. Each time I argue with my younger ones they call me homosexual. I was so ashamed of myself that during Jamb period I wanted to study medicine and surgery in UNN but as a growing Igbo child must South easterns likes UNN. I got medicine in UNN but my class mate in secondary school then latter got admission. I saw 22 of them in various department of which five of them where science inclined that they got zoology, Botany, biochemistry and combined biological science. After a semester I started hearing the news about my homosexual expulsion that my medical class mates latter asked me and said it was true, my ego was destroyed that I have to drop out, wrote another Jamb and got medicine again at University of Ibadan where I know that I won't see those Igbos again. My parents did not know but I did it secretly.
I graduated from medicine and Now I am doing my horsemanship in the best hospital in Nigeria .. Guess what happened I saw my principal who expelled me and announced to the church that am homo, who made my life miserable and who refused to expell the son of the church elder who also was caught on homo act lying down on a sick bed precisely male medical ward . I was shocked because I was posted freshly in urology unit.. Should I kill this man because I know what to do that will kill him or should I forgive him?
Thursday, 3 September 2015
My Near Gay Sex Experience in Enugu!
My phone rang again, it was Ekene. "Where you dey na he quized," and i replied in a grim voice "I'm coming." This was one of those cold harmattan evenings in Enugu that not even a good sweater could sheild the cold. "Hurry Up na, time dey go and i wan enter house fast." I got to the junction at New layout and he wasn't there. So i came all this way to waste my time abi? Make this mofo nor try me i said in my mind. I assumed he had waited for my skinny young bum to show up and when he couldn't wait any longer left.
My phone ranga again, I had put it in silent to prevent him from identifying me so easily as i stood at the junction. It rang again, i had no option than to pick the call, this idiot who was probably hiding somewhere will spot me from afar and size me up before we meet shebi? I hated people not appearing at meeting points at the appointed time; "I'm there now, where are you" i muffled angrily into the phone. "okay na you wear that brown short Knicker and bowler hat" he quizzed. I was too angry to answer but heard my annoyed being saying "Yes" then the vagabond replied with "okay wait, i go buy pork i dey come." Now i was in for it...
You see i had met Ekene on one of the social media app as i came to spend time with my uncle living in Enugu, since Onitsha was becoming too boring. As a sharo boy i had already hooked up with 2 guys in my 3 weeks stay here but the arrival of my cousin, my uncles daughter, who was always a nuisance in the flat ruined my chances of getting privacy and sneaking in fresh meat to have a good time. Ekene looked good from the pictures he shared, he looked particularly hunky, darksinned and the fact that he was from Anambara like me gave me that confidence that he wasn't going to scam me. I was however dissapointed at the uncouth nature he spoke when we began talking over the phone and how dishevelled he looked when we met that night. He told me he was learning how to repair generators, and thouhgh he appeared to be not more than 25, he looked 30. One fact i couldn't deny though was that he was good looking, and had some money to spend.
He walked to me as i held the jerry can and peered into his well cut face. We began talking and he offered me pork, which i disliked and declined. Although uncouth and rough, dude was a sweet talker and got me laughing over his thick accent and crazy gist of what happened between a husband and wife in his compund that morning. Then we entered sex matters and he opened up claiming it was his "oga" that made him "do it" the first time and he eventually liked the act. We talked and talked that i forgot that i had strolled out to go buy kerosene for the stove so that my auntie could warm the soup and boil water for garri, for dinner. 30 Minutes later i was on my knees inside a class room in one of the primary schools in the area giving Ekene mad head. Yes! I agree i was a whore! He eventually wanted to penetrate, but for where? The pain i knew would come since there was no lube made me have the sense to say no! We just fondled and i left him there with his trouser at his ankle, when i saw 3 missed calls from Uncle Chuks, resetting my brain as to what the jerry can i was with was meant for. He was begging that i stay to jerk him off, but nwanne, i ran as fast as my leg could carry me, because only the sharp tongue of my aunt Jemima can kill Lazarus in purgatory even before he resurrected.
I arrived home to a barrage of nonsense talk and accusations i was now fooling around with "Enugu Girls" but deep inside i was laughing and saying "if only they knew." Ekene called me that night and cursed me out saying i did not love him, and couldn't even wait for him to cum! "lekewnum akuko" i send am message? He eventually did apologise and wanted us to see again, but there was no chance, my cousin was always on my case and i suspect she smelt my sexuality but just didn't have any proof to affirm it!
I Bet You Didn't Know this About Anal Warts »GRAPHIC PHOTOS«
Alot of people in Nigeria have them, and it is spreading like wild fire in the gay community, because condoms can't prevent them and most of you don't know. Anal warts is a sexually transmitted disease caused by Human Papilloma Virus otherwise known as HPV. It manifests as out growths of skin in the Anal region and trust me, it can be quite ugly looking and disgusting. Please note, some of the dspleasing images are attached to this post.
Wednesday, 2 September 2015
Question of the Day
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